burnout5 min readJuly 12, 2025

How to Deal with Burnout When You're Broke and Tired (Because Adulting is a Scam)

Feeling like a burnt-out crisp, but your bank account's drier than a desert? We get it. Here's how to claw your way back from the brink without selling a kidney. Real talk, no fluff.

So, you're officially a crispy critter. Your brain feels like scrambled eggs, your body's on protest, and your wallet's whispering sweet nothings about ramen noodles. Classic burnout, but with the added spice of being perpetually broke. Fun, right?

Listen, we've all been there. Society's got us on a hamster wheel, telling us to 'hustle' until we drop, then judging us for being tired. Nah, fam. It's time to reclaim your chill, even if your savings account is doing a convincing impression of an empty abyss.

The Low-Key Survival Guide for the Burned-Out & Broke:

  • Nap Like It's Your Job (Because It Kinda Is): Forget power naps, we're talking about commitment. If your body's screaming for a reset, give it one. You can't pour from an empty cup, especially if that cup is already cracked and leaking ambition. No shame in the snooze game.

  • Rethink Your "Productivity" Flex: Are you actually being productive, or just busy-working? The grind culture is a trap. Sometimes, the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing. Seriously. Put down the phone. Stare at a wall. Your brain needs a defrag.

  • Free Self-Care That Doesn't Cost Your Soul (or a Latte):

    • Nature Bathing (AKA going outside): It's free. It's fresh air. It's shockingly effective. Find a patch of grass, a park bench, or just stand on your porch. Breathe.
    • Emotional Dumpster Diving (with a friend, not literally): Vent. Rant. Share the absurdity of it all with someone who gets it. Misery loves company, and sometimes, that company is a lifeline.
    • Reading (duh): We're not just saying that 'cause we're a book app. Seriously, escaping into someone else's brain for a bit can be the ultimate reset. You don't need a fancy self-help guru; sometimes, a good story is all the therapy you need. We've got tons of options that won't make your wallet cry.
  • Set Boundaries Like a Boss (Even if Your Boss is You): Learn to say "nah" to anything that drains you without giving back. Your time and energy are precious, even when you feel like you have none. Protect your peace like it's the last slice of pizza.


Our Top Picks for Your Burnout Comeback Tour

1. Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski

The Vibe: This book basically tells you that you're not broken, society is. It explains that stress and burnout are two different beasts, and you have to deal with them separately. It's the science-backed permission slip you need to stop feeling guilty for feeling exhausted.

The Hack: You have to complete the stress cycle. Feeling stressed is like seeing a lion; your body goes into fight-or-flight. Even when the "lion" (e.g., your boss's email) is gone, the stress is still in your body. You gotta shake it out, cry, hug someone, or do something physical to signal to your body that you're safe now.

2. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

The Vibe: Sometimes, things are just messed up, and that's okay. Instead of desperately trying to be positive all the time, Manson argues for choosing your struggles wisely. It's about deciding what's actually worth your limited emotional energy.

The Hack: Stop giving a f*ck about everything. Your f*cks are a precious, limited resource. Save them for the things that truly matter to you—your values, your people, your sanity. Let the rest of it be background noise.

3. Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman

The Vibe: A time management book that tells you you'll never get everything done. Refreshing, right? It's a reality check that forces you to confront your mortality (in a good way) and make choices about what to do with your comically short life.

The Hack: Embrace your limits. You have about 4,000 weeks on this planet. Stop trying to optimize every second. Instead, decide what to neglect. Intentionally choose what you're not going to do, so you can focus on what you truly care about.

4. Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker

The Vibe: This book will scare you into getting eight hours of sleep a night. Walker, a neuroscientist, lays out the devastating consequences of sleep deprivation on your brain, body, and emotions. It's the ultimate 'I told you so' for every time you've stayed up late to binge-watch a show.

The Hack: Prioritize sleep like your life depends on it (because it does). Treat your bedtime as a non-negotiable appointment. No caffeine after 2 PM, create a cool and dark sleep environment, and for the love of all that is holy, put your phone away an hour before bed.

So, next time you feel that crispy feeling creeping in, remember: you're not failing. You're just hitting the "reboot" button. And we've got the literary hacks to help you do it.

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