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Your 7-Day Guide to Stop Being Nice & Start Setting Boundaries

Being the 'nice guy' has left you feeling broke, overlooked, and resentful. This 7-day journey is your 'Villain Era' activation. It's not about being evil; it's about setting boundaries, prioritizing your own goals, and finally taking back your power.

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The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

by Mark Manson

Your villain era begins with a declaration of independence. This book is your essential first step, teaching you to stop seeking everyone's approval and start choosing what's actually worth your energy. It's the philosophical permission to prioritize yourself.

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The Courage to Be Disliked

by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

After deciding to prioritize yourself yesterday, this book gives you the psychological freedom to do it. It’s a powerful guide to detaching your self-worth from the opinions of others. You cannot have strong boundaries if you fear being disliked.

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The 48 Laws of Power

by Robert Greene

With the inner freedom from yesterday, it's time to understand the external game. This book is a ruthless look at the dynamics of power. The 'villain era' requires understanding these laws so you can navigate them effectively and not be played.

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Never Split the Difference

by Chris Voss

Now that you understand the laws of power, you need the tools to enforce your boundaries. This book, by an FBI negotiator, gives you the tactical communication skills to say 'no' effectively and get what you want without being aggressive.

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Essentialism

by Greg McKeown

With the tactical skills from yesterday, this book provides the life strategy. Essentialism is the art of saying 'no' to the trivial many to say 'yes' to the vital few. It’s how you apply your new boundaries to your time, energy, and commitments.

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Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control

by Ryan Holiday

Prioritizing yourself requires immense self-control. After choosing your essential path, this book gives you the Stoic discipline to walk it. It's about building the inner strength to stick to your new boundaries, even when it's hard.

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Meditations

by Marcus Aurelius

For our finale, the ultimate source of inner power. After a week of building external boundaries, this book teaches you to build an unbreachable inner citadel. A true villain era is powered by an unshakable inner peace that no one can disrupt.

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